Going through difficult times in life can be overwhelming, and it can be hard to see a way forward. It's important to remember that you are not alone, and there are ways to thrive even after experiencing hardship.

Here are some tips for finding resilience and success after difficult times:

1. Seek support: It's important to have a supportive network of friends and family during difficult times. Reach out to loved ones and let them know how you're feeling. They may be able to offer comfort, encouragement, and practical assistance. It's also a good idea to consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor, who can provide a safe and nonjudgmental space to process your emotions and work through challenges.

2. Practice self-care: Taking care of yourself is crucial during trying times. This includes things like getting enough sleep, eating well, and engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. It's also important to find healthy ways to cope with stress, such as through exercise, meditation, or hobbies. (Personally, I love Insight Timer for meditation, and using fragrance to boost my mood.)

3. Set goals: Having a sense of purpose and direction can be incredibly empowering, even you are facing challenges. Consider setting small, achievable goals for yourself, and work towards them consistently. This can help you feel a sense of accomplishment and give you something to focus on besides the obstacles you're facing.

4. Find ways to give back: Engaging in activities that benefit others can be a great way to find meaning and purpose, and it can also help you feel connected to your community. Whether it's volunteering your time, donating money to a worthy cause, or simply reaching out to a friend in need, finding ways to make a positive impact on others can be incredibly rewarding.

5. Learn from the experience: While it's important to acknowledge and process the difficult emotions that come with experiencing hardship, it's also important to try to find the silver lining. What can you learn from this experience that will help you grow and become stronger? How can you use this experience to become a more resilient and capable person?

Remember, it's normal to feel overwhelmed and unsure of how to move forward after experiencing hardship. With a little bit of effort, it is possible to thrive and find happiness again. Seek support, practice self-care, set goals, find ways to give back, and learn from the experience. With time you will persevere, you can build resilience and find success on the other side of hardship.